Hi everyone!
Many of you know me from Reddit and Twitter as Ginger4Play but I wanted to make this site a bit more relaxed and not so username-ish so here it goes....
My name is Ginger🔥, not by real name btw but as some of you have seen, I have naturally red hair down below. I am a bisexual swinger/hotwife that has been in the LifeStyle (LS) with my husband for almost 10 years. I wanted to create a post where anyone will be free to ask, either here or through direct messages, anything they want to know about me or my VIP Onlyfans site.
So ask away by sending me a message on OnlyFans or Fansly!! Love to answer questions and let my fans know what is going on inside my head! 🤪
Also, if you are a current or previous subscriber and would like to add a review to my site, I would be forever grateful. 😘
How old are you?
I am 35 years old. When I first started doing this, another creator told me I looked 25 and should advertise as such. I want to give you all a glimpse into my personal life I share with my husband and don't need to create some fantasy for everyone. No need to lie about any of it, it's amazing as it is.
Where are you from?
For obvious reasons I do not post my hometown. Some people may figure it out but for safety reasons I try not to advertise it. Nothing worse than someone trying to guess every aspect of your life from pics. I'm from Texas and that is about all I want to discuss about that.
What do you do for a living?
Again, can't say. I work for a business full time and it's a very small career field. I do have a bachelor's degree and a masters degree. The last thing I need is to be doxxed and it's like a personal mission for some people to out others for some reason. Sharing my secret life with fellow Redditors is my hobby.
What size are your breasts?
My breasts are 32DD. I am also a size 4. They are not natural, enhanced with 300cc implants under the muscle. I was a small B before the implants.
How did you get into the Lifestyle?
When my husband and I first started dating, he was approached by an ex-girlfriend to join her husband and her in the bedroom. She was a hotwife and bisexual swinger. Up until this point I had never even knew that was a thing or had any thoughts about it really. But my husband and I started to talk about it and that let to fantasies and sexting about it. Eventually we found adultfriendfinder.com and that led us to meeting our first couple and my first girl on girl experience. We talked about it immediately afterwards and how it met expectations, didn't meet expectations, what we enjoyed about it and what we would change. Never looked back after that night.
Are you Bisexual?
Yes, but really I like to describe it as bi-furious. I love being with women and sharing a bed with others where I get to touch and play with everyone.
What do you look for in other couples?
We typically look for people likes ourselves. They don't have to be carbon copies per se, but generally people with similar experiences in life and in the LS. Preferably a couple with a bisexual female. My husband is straight.
Do you play with singles?
We do play with singles on occasion. Single females are always welcome, lol. Single males is more rare but occasionally happens. But when we need a single male, we have some we already know and trust.
My partner and I want to get into the Lifestyle
My advice on how to get into the LS for couples is to first start with r/swingers. It is a great resource with lots of good information and links. Start looking for local r4r sites as well. Talk to people and find out what swinger websites are popular in your area. AdultFriendFinder.com is a popular one for newbies to start on like we did, but then we found the one more popular for our region. Also start looking at local swinger bars. Finding people online then meeting them out at one is a great way to meet new people instead of just rolling in and trying to start conversations. Swinger clubs can have a few cliques in them and might be difficult to get into the group. Of course all of this should come after lots of communication between your partner and yourself about expectations, desires, needs, wants, rules, etc..
Just be aware not everyone wants to play with new couples. New couples can be arrogant, needy, demanding, etc. I know were were for a short time. It can take a while to meet your first couple or it could happen really fast, it all depends on you and where you live. Just be ready for a little rejection, we get it all the time. We've been stood up, ignored, ghosted, all that stuff and it just comes with the lifestyle.
Has your participation in the LS created any difficulties in your relationship?
I would say every couple has their ups and downs when it comes to the LS but I'm sure there are outliers. As amazing as our relationship is we occasionally come across a new situation where one of us does something the other didn't like. Like it crossed a boundary we hadn't thought of before or one we had forgotten about a long time ago. But as long as we communicate it and forgive/forget that it happened, as neither of us are perfect, then it works out ok. Just like any relationship jealousy and resentment will cause a lot of problems. You don't have to have the perfect relationship before getting into the LS, but how you handle problems that come up, and they usually do at some point, then you will be ok. If you both have a strong commitment to seeing the other person pleasured and happy and not get jealous, then the LS is perfect for you. The one situation we see time and time again is couples using the LS to fix their problems, it never ends well.
What has been your favorite experience playing with others in the LS
We met a woman, let's call her Maria, on a LS site. She had approached us and said that she was looking for a couple to play with for the first time. She was married and he really wanted her to go play with another man and woman at the same time as well as get lots of pics and video. They were out of towners and drove in on a Friday afternoon and got a hotel room in town. We met her at a local bar for a drink and to get to know her a little more. After a few beers the three of us went back to our place and proceeded to have an amazing time together. For never having been with a woman before, she definitely took to it very quickly. Here is a link to the video we made together and sent to her husband.
On a side note, I love being a woman's first time. We meet a lot of bi-curious women in the LS and it's a special moment to be someone's first.
Why can’t I chat you on Reddit?
I get so many messages between Reddit, Twitter and OnlyFans that I’ve had to draw the line somewhere. I always respond to messages on my OnlyFans pages.